The In-Between: Summary Review
This is a summary review of The In-Between containing key details about the book.
What is The In-Between About?
"The In-Between" by Jeff Goins is a book that explores the importance of embracing the moments between major milestones in life. It’s a powerful reminder of the importance of embracing the moments in between major milestones in life. By being present, embracing uncertainty, cultivating relationships, and finding purpose, we can create a rich and fulfilling life that is full of meaning and purpose.
The In-Between is a call to accept the importance that waiting plays in our lives. Can we embrace the extraordinary nature of the ordinary and enjoy the daily mundane - what lies in between the "major" moments?
Moments of breakthrough are not where life's greatest transformation happens; the stuff that God uses to shape us often lies in the in-between. It's the bus stops and layovers and DMV lines and moments of unintentional pause that force us to become better people.
Summary Points & Takeaways from The In-Between
Some key summary points and takeaways from the book include:
* Life happens in the in-between: While major milestones like graduations, weddings, and promotions are important, they are only a small part of life. The moments in between these milestones are where life happens, and it's important to embrace them.
* Embrace the present moment: Instead of always looking forward to the next big thing, it's important to be present in the moment and appreciate the beauty of everyday life. This requires slowing down, being mindful, and taking time to appreciate the simple pleasures in life.
* Embrace the uncertainty: The in-between moments can be uncomfortable and uncertain, but they are also where we have the opportunity to grow and learn. By embracing the uncertainty and being open to new experiences, we can discover new passions and find greater meaning in our lives.
* Cultivate relationships: The in-between moments are also where we have the opportunity to cultivate meaningful relationships with others. By being present, showing up for others, and building deep connections, we can create a rich and fulfilling life.
* Find purpose in the in-between: Finally, it's important to find purpose and meaning in the in-between moments. This can be done by pursuing hobbies and interests, volunteering, or finding ways to make a positive impact on the world.
Who is the author of The In-Between?
Jeff Goins is an American author, blogger, and speaker. He is the founder of Tribe Writers, an online community for writers. He has written for Business Insider, Fast Company, the New York Observer, and others.
What are good quotes from The In-Between?
“The big moments are the tiny moments. The breakthroughs are often silent, and they happen in the most unassuming places.”
“the wait sometimes is essential to appreciate the gifts that follow, no matter how much we may resent the process.”
“Watching a tree grow will likely drive you crazy. It’s a boring process if you stand there, impatiently tapping your foot, waiting for it to do something. But if you step away and come back later, you’ll be surprised to see something beautiful emerge. The fact is the plant is doing something: it’s growing. Just not as quickly as you might like. Our culture has conditioned us to expect instant results and overnight success; this impatience runs so rampant that we dress it up in terms like “efficiency” and “productivity.” But really what’s happening is we are conditioning ourselves to get what we want now, all the time. This mindset robs us of the lessons that waiting can teach us, causing us to miss out on the slow but important stuff of life.”
“A life filled with movement, with constant motion and no rest stops, isn’t a life at all. It’s tourism.”
“The good life comes like most good things—unexpectedly—in moments that are fading away faster than we realize. These are the moments that take our time but don’t demand our attention. When we miss them, they’re gone. In those times especially, we would do well to slow down and be present, because we won’t get them back.”
“Our journey is full of rest stops- park benches and airport terminals- that signal the arrival of things we anticipate. Sometimes, they´re worth the wait; other times, the glory doesn’t shine quite like wed hope. Regardless, we need to learn to live in this tension, to appreciate what we have and still hope for.”
“And as we embrace the wait, we learn to appreciate the delays and postponements that teach us some things in life are worth waiting for.”
“Many of us are speeding up and skipping over, missing the important as we scan for the urgent. The irony is that in our anxiety toward not missing out, we are losing the most meaningful moments of life.”
“Home is the place where we sometimes hurt the ones we love, but the back door is always open—and there is always a seat at the table. We have a choice where we put our hearts and lay our heads, but home is where it’s always been. Home is home—not necessarily a location, but more than a feeling. It’s the place where we are loved, even when that love is complicated and messy but still sets a place at the table for you.”
“But many of us fail to recognize that the best moments are the ones happening right now.”
“every moment is a chance to choose.”
“The good life comes like most good things-unexpectedly-in moments that are fading away faster than we realize. These are the moments that take our time but don’t demand our attention. When we miss them, they´re gone. In those times especially, we would do well to slow down and be present, because we won't get them back.”
Book details
- Print length: 304 Pages
- Genre: Romance, Young Adult, Paranormal
What are the chapters in The In-Between?
Chapter 1: Siestas
Chapter 2: Tracks
Chapter 3: The Road
Chapter 4: Calling
Chapter 5: Courtship
Chapter 6: Expecting
Chapter 7: Bookshelves
Chapter 8: Ice Cream
What do critics say?
Here's what one of the prominent reviewers had to say about the book: "In the past few years I've had the honor of watching Jeff Goins transition from a writer into a thought leader and one of the most exciting next generation voices. In this book, you'll see why and perhaps even more importantly how he did it." — Jon Acuff, New York Times Bestselling author of Start
* The editor of this summary review made every effort to maintain information accuracy, including any published quotes, chapters, or takeaways. If you're interested in furthering your personal growth, you may want to explore my list of favorite self-improvement books. These books, which have had a significant impact on my life, are carefully curated and come with summaries and key lessons.
Chief Editor
Tal Gur is an author, founder, and impact-driven entrepreneur at heart. After trading his daily grind for a life of his own daring design, he spent a decade pursuing 100 major life goals around the globe. His journey and most recent book, The Art of Fully Living, has led him to found Elevate Society.
