The true self knows no fear of loss.
Imagine a life where fear has no place, where every decision is made from a deep sense of knowing oneself without the nagging worry of what might be lost. This idea cuts to the core of human experience—finding a state of being so anchored in our true selves that external threats lose their power to intimidate or sway us.
Consider a tree standing tall in a forest, its roots firmly anchored in the earth. Storms may come and winds may howl, yet the tree remains steadfast because its essence, its true self, is unwavering. It doesn't fear the loss of leaves or branches, for it knows that its strength lies in its deep roots. Similarly, when we connect with our true selves, our core values, and our inner wisdom, we become like that tree—unshaken by the storms of life.
In practical terms, this means living authentically—making choices that resonate with our deepest beliefs and desires, rather than being swayed by external pressures or the fear of losing something superficial. Imagine a person who pursues a career not for the sake of money or status, but because it aligns with their passion and purpose. They are less afraid of losing material wealth or societal approval because their fulfillment comes from within.
Fear of loss often drives us to make decisions that are not in alignment with our true selves. It might compel us to stay in unfulfilling relationships or jobs, simply because we fear the uncertainty of change or the loss of familiarity. However, when we operate from a place of knowing our true selves, we are guided by inner clarity rather than external anxieties.
Think of a surfer riding a wave. To stay balanced and navigate the waves, they must be attuned to their center of gravity and the movement of the water. If they fear falling or losing balance, they tense up and may indeed fall. Yet, a skilled surfer trusts their instincts, adjusts naturally, and rides the wave effortlessly. Similarly, when we trust our true selves, we navigate life's ups and downs with greater ease and resilience.
The fear of loss often stems from attachment—whether to possessions, relationships, or even aspects of our identity that we think define us. However, the true self is not defined by external factors; it is the essence of who we are beyond labels and possessions. Just as a river flows naturally around obstacles in its path, our true selves flow through life without clinging to what can be lost.
In essence, the wisdom encapsulated in this understanding is profound yet simple: when we are anchored in our true selves, fear of loss diminishes because our sense of security and fulfillment comes from within. It's like finding a sturdy anchor in the midst of a stormy sea; no matter how strong the waves crash, the anchor holds firm, allowing the ship to weather the storm.
To summarize, living from our true self means finding a deep-seated peace and confidence that transcends the fear of external losses. It's about discovering and embracing who we are at our core, so that our decisions and actions reflect that authenticity.
So, how can you cultivate a deeper connection to your true self today? What small step can you take right now to align your actions more closely with your inner values and desires?
Chief Editor
Tal Gur is an author, founder, and impact-driven entrepreneur at heart. After trading his daily grind for a life of his own daring design, he spent a decade pursuing 100 major life goals around the globe. His journey and most recent book, The Art of Fully Living, has led him to found Elevate Society.
