What is Loving What Is About?
Loving What Is is a step-by-step mode of inquiry that is built around 4 questions (often called "The Work") intended to help us free ourselves from our suffering, delusions, and limiting beliefs. (Loving What Is Summary)
30 Top Quotes From Loving What Is
1. [Favorite Quote]: "We don't make thoughts appear, they just appear. One day, I noticed that their appearance just wasn't personal. Noticing that really makes it simpler to inquire.”
2. "As long as you think that anyone or anything is responsible for your suffering—the situation is hopeless. It means that you are forever in the role of victim, that you’re suffering in paradise.”
3. “A thought is harmless unless we believe it. It’s not our thoughts, but our attachment to our thoughts, that causes suffering. "
4. “Isn’t it marvelous to discover that you’re the one you’ve been waiting for? That you are your own freedom?”
5. “I am a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality.”
6. “We’re all looking for love, in our confusion, until we find our way back to the realization that love is what we already are.”
7. “Our parents, our children, our spouses, and our friends will continue to press every button we have, until we realize what it is that we don't want to know about ourselves, yet. They will point us to our freedom every time.”
8. "We can know that reality is good just as it is, because when we argue with it, we experience tension and frustration. "
9. "When your hand starts to burn, it moves. You don’t have to direct it; the hand moves itself. In the same way, once you understand, through inquiry, that an untrue thought causes suffering, you move away from it.”
10. "When we stop opposing reality, action becomes simple, fluid, kind, and fearless.”
11. “Peace doesn't require two people; it requires only one. It has to be you. The problem begins and ends there.”
12. “Everyone is a mirror image of yourself—your own thinking coming back at you.”
13. “You are your only hope, because we're not changing until you do."
14. "Would you argue with a raindrop? Raindrops aren’t personal, and neither are thoughts"
15. “You move totally away from reality when you believe that there is a legitimate reason to suffer."
16. "People are just like seeds waiting to sprout. We can’t be pushed ahead of our own understanding."
17. “We don't attach to people or to things; we attach to uninvestigated concepts that we believe to be true in the moment.”
18. "The teachers we need most are the people we’re living with now.”
19. "Depression, pain, and fear are gifts that say, “Sweetheart, take a look at your thinking right now. You’re living in a story that isn’t true for you.”
20. “When you realize that every stressful moment you experience is a gift that points you to your own freedom, life becomes very kind.”
21. “Self-realization is the sweetest thing. It shows us how we are fully responsible for ourselves, and that is where we find our freedom.”
22. “I wasn’t always able to live the advice that I so generously held out for others to live. When I realized this, I found myself on equal ground with the people I had judged."
23. "Where reality is concerned, there is no “what should be.” There is only what is, just the way it is, right now. The truth is prior to every story.
24. “Reality doesn’t wait for our agreement or approval."
25. “This is true freedom: a mind that is no longer deceived by itself."
26. “When you think that people should be kind to you, the reverse is true: You should be kind to them and to yourself”
27. "The pain we feel about a past event is created in the present”
28. “Your story is your identity, and you’d do almost anything to prove that it’s true"
29. “Nothing external can disturb us. We suffer only when we want things to be different from what they are.”
30. “The world is your perception of it. Inside and outside always match—they are reflections of each other.”
― Quotes from the book Loving What Is by Byron Katie
Who is the author of Loving What Is?
Byron Katie is an American speaker and author who teaches a method of self-inquiry known as "The Work of Byron Katie" or simply as "The Work".
Tal Gur is an impact-driven entrepreneur, author, and investor. After trading his daily grind for a life of his own daring design, he spent a decade pursuing 100 major life goals around the globe. His journey and most recent book, The Art of Fully Living - 1 Man, 10 Years, 100 Life Goals Around the World, has led him to found Elevate Society.